Saturday, December 28, 2013

The Tale of the Christmas Hats or Operation Riding Hood



This is the story of the love of a mom and lots of Russian citizens who were determined to bring Christmas gifts to a little orphan girl and her friends despite the rulings of a Russian President who signed a law to keep them apart. 

I will give you the short version of the story here but please read and look at the pictures below for the long version of the story even though it is in Russian with Google Translate to help tell it. 

Since I knew that there was no way Natasha would be home for her Birthday or Christmas again this year, I was determined to send some sort of gift to her. 

I thought long and hard about what I should send. It couldn't be too heavy because shipping is very expensive and it had to be somewhat practical because she lives in an orphanage where everything is shared. 

I found a blog where two teenage girls make silly hats to raise money for orphans and fell in love with the idea. I also wanted to send a dress for the New Year Celebration since she would not be home to wear it for Christmas.



Friends volunteered to purchase a hat because I needed to get 10 of them for the group and pay for shipping too. I am so grateful to those who helped purchase the hats. 

My next problem was I was running out of time to get them shipped. 

The girls made the hats super fast and I asked for opinions on FB for the best way to ship them. 

That is when Maria told me there was no way they would make it by Natasha's birthday as they would get stuck in customs. I was sick thinking about missing her birthday and Christmas once again. 

That is when Maria got this brilliant idea. She would put out a request on FB and ask if anyone was traveling from the US to Moscow anytime before Christmas. She said she would figure out how to get them to St. Petersburg after that and she would ask the director of the orphanage permission to do a news story on it. 

What happened next amazed me. So many Russian citizens coming forward to help but not until after Christmas. My heart was broken as I was desperate to get them there by Christmas. 

The little hats and dress went on a very exciting journey. I overnighted them from Southern California to Northern California where a man I had never met or talked to put them in his suitcase to fly with him to Warsaw Poland. There was a lady having a meeting with people from Moscow there. I am told the hats then got on a plane with another person in Poland to fly to Moscow. From there Maria picked them up and found someone to take them on the train from Moscow to St. Petersburg. 

The journalist took them to the orphanage on December 24th and the story of their time with the children is written below. 

I will never forget the kindness of strangers who helped make my Christmas one of the best I have ever had. To see the smile on the children's faces and to know they received extra attention that day is a gift that I will never forget. 

Maybe one day someone will write the tale of the Christmas Hats to remind the world there is still peace on earth and goodwill toward men. You just have to know where to look for it even in a crazy international adoption ban. 


Google translation below

Without mom

Exactly one year ago, on December 28, Vladimir Putin signed "antisirotsky law." Because of this law a little Lera, which could become a happy girl, still lives in an orphanage. Chance that someone will love her as an American love Katrina, no

Of course, eight-Leray elegant dress could easily buy in St. Petersburg. And then Katrina Morris would not have to look absolutely crazy opportunity - from California to Washington, from Washington to Warsaw, from Warsaw to Moscow, from Moscow to St. Petersburg - only managed to gift for Christmas. But she wanted to choose a dress blond girl, her invalid daughter. Incidentally, burgundy dress with a red belt, which flew to the orphanage just in time, sitting on the Leray as if they were together with Katrina tried on him. And American bought ten funny knitted hats - Lerin girlfriends. (Correspondents "New" became the last link in an operation codenamed "caps." We met at the Moscow station parcel and had to take her to an orphanage Leray.) 




Summer 2012. Katrina with Leroy sit on the swing and still have no idea what awaits them

The new dress with a red strap Lera could not stop looking at yourself

Operation "Riding Hood" was successful. Gifts for Lera, Christina, Myra and other kids flew from California to St. Petersburg. Photos from this festival, we sent back to California Katrina Morris










Katrina
   Katrina Read this page in facebook is impossible without tears. In November 2012 it is still fun to share with friends stories about what they tons of paper with her ​​husband had collected. "I hate flying, I do not like foreign food and unknown places. But there's my daughter "- she writes, not knowing how it would be. Leroux expected not only Katrina and Stephen, but their four children: three sons and a teenage stepdaughter.

   Couple wants to call a girl Natasha. "She has a birthday on December 19 and she looks like a Christmas baby. And its adoption would be for her as a new birth, "- writes Katrina.

   In December, everything changes. Duma has already passed a law of Dima Yakovlev third reading, but Putin has not yet signed it. December 27 Katrina meets friends who are trying to encourage her: "Miracles do happen, but this is unlikely. All we can do now is pray that we will be allowed to complete the adoption. "

   Prayers have not helped. The next day, December 28, Russian President signs "antisirotsky law." "It hurts like hell when I understand that I may never see her again and she'll never know love, family."
   But Katrina did not give up. She collects signatures, appeals to U.S. senators, asking them to pray to Obama, that though he got through to his Russian colleagues.

   It liaises with children's home in St. Petersburg, where he lives Lera, and devotes her poetry: "I do not want to be someone, who go so easily. I will not abandon you. " A year later, on the eve of Lerin birthday, she is still waiting for the little girl, although he understood that more than likely never see her again.

   "I would love Russian family that would take Natasha, but we were told - its chances of adoption are extremely small . She was lucky though because it is in a very good location "- sadly she says.

House   Lera Down syndrome, so she lives in a boarding number 1 for children with intellectual disabilities.Despite the heavy title, this is a very beautiful house.    We come during quiet hours, and while the kids are asleep, director Valery Asikritov leads us beautifully renovated building, shows a huge decorated Christmas Tree in the auditorium where caregivers rehearse matinee: in everyday clothes dancing call Santa Claus and dance in a circle. "This is what we now went over when dance led, and tomorrow there will be children in wheelchairs and everything will be different," - explains Maiden. The house smells delicious food and comfort. Everyone we meet in the hallways, smiling.    Valery, of course, proud and renovated, and the tree, and excellent food, which is prepared his team. But he is a very kind person, so admits a good family children still better. A year wanting to take Leroux among Russians was not found.    "History Lera - exception. No potential parents of these children do not. In all the years that I've been working only in the 90s, Americans adopted a boy. And a year and a half ago, the woman took the two custody "- says Valentina Popova, Deputy Director. After Lera and her friends not only Down syndrome, but the mass of comorbidities - the eight-year Natasha optic atrophy (because of poor eyesight she feels the interlocutor), in a five-year Worlds bowel problems, she was silent, smiling and occasionally grabs his tummy .    of the two hundred pupils home one hundred thirty orphans with living parents. And in turn, according to Valentina Popova, worth almost another forty children. Most often single mothers ask them to pick up in a boarding school, because I do not have time to work and care for the child. They could visit the children, taking them on vacation, but in almost all group Lera - refuseniks. To the World, for example, occasionally comes grandmother, mother and father of the girl refused.

Lera    Quiet time ends and running towards us Lera. She hugs everyone asks her to wander, leads visitors along. Seeing the dress, it immediately puts. Long walks through all caps and selects one for a photo shoot - boys with stripe «S», which means "Superman." She likes to be the center of attention, like to chat, meet people, like to be beautiful.    Lera stubborn fighting and endlessly amusing. If she wants to her circled or used on the hands, it will stand any competition from others wanting to discourage, but soar.    Nadezhda, educator, says that in March, they will put the fairy tale "The Fox, Rabbit and Rooster." Roles have been distributed. As children barely speak (only certain syllables and short words "yes" or "no"), all the characters, including the Spring and Sunny will play through movement. Fox will perform the role of a girl from another group - she says. Leray got the role of the Cockerel, which helps drive Zaika Fox.    Christina came to us she silently puts on one of the caps, sees a piece of paper, a pencil requests, sits on the carpet and begins to draw. Nadezhda says Christina calm but very touchy, "Whatever you say, immediately sponge puff up."    In Worlds very beautiful eyes and long eyelashes. The world loves it when she is being held in his arms. Adult she looks very intently. As long and calmly looks at his reflection in the large Christmas tree toys. "They need to feel that they are loved. That's all, "- says the educator.    To get from the rooms to the assembly hall, you have to climb to the second floor. Of the girls with the teacher leaves the elevator, part goes peshochkom. Christina, a tiny, with short hair, in a pink dress, lying one of the first. Girl in front of her light can not overcome the last four stage. Christine rushes to her for help. Light from helping proudly refuses, saying that myself.    Assembly hall Sasha shoe drops. Lera immediately rushes to her and starts to pull on her shoes.    dancing girls, photographed in hats, playing with white balls similar to snow. And each is trying to draw attention to themselves. They repeat the movement for you, touch you again and ask them to wander.

Finals    getting dark, we go to court.Before us is a swing on which a half years ago Leroy sat with his invalid mother and father. Then she had a huge blue bow tied. No snow, only withered grass circle. The decor is reminiscent of a children's summer camp, only sad.    "In the camp you know that two weeks back home. And here you will not get home ... never "- sighs colleague. 

Thursday, December 26, 2013

So Many Stories

Remember a few post ago I told you about my new theme song
Brave?

I have been raising my voice a lot lately with the help of 
some amazing Russian journalist. 

They are the Brave ones. 

They are trying to raise awareness for the children 
left behind especially with the year anniversary of the ban. 

I have felt so honored to be interviewed by them 
and to have become good friends with two of them. 

I have lots to share but for right now I will just share the articles
I have been in recently. 

There is more to come. 

We are raising our voices together and it feels good to tell the 
Russian citizens about our amazing "EX REFERRAL" Natasha. 

You all know I mean our "daughter" Natasha but I put that in there just for my 
lovely troll who likes to make sure I know that I no longer have any legal claim to her. 
As if somehow I am just supposed to walk away and let her grow up in an institution without 
putting up some sort of fight. 

Anyway, back to the articles we have been interviewed for. 
They are all in Russian so you will need to use 
Google Translator unless of course you speak Russian. 

I cannot begin to tell you how much I appreciate the efforts
these women have put forth in fighting for the forgotten children. 

I don't think they ever sleep and they have to endure far worse trolls than I do. 

So from the bottom of my heart 
thank you Maria and Julia for helping the children have a voice. 

There are other journalist that have written about us but I do not know them 
personally but I thank them too. 





and this last link is a letter we wrote to the children so they 
will know they were not forgotten.



So that is what I have been up to the past month along 
with making our video

Oh and one other thing that is still a secret and I can't share yet
but am really excited and nervous about. 

Tomorrow I hope to be able to share a Christmas Hat story with you. 

I am waiting for it to get published in a paper first 
but can't wait to share this amazing story either. 

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays 

and

thanks for caring about my girl. 

Friday, December 20, 2013

Sending You A Little Christmas

Yesterday was Natasha's birthday

I spent the whole day working on a video 
that shows a lot of the children and families stuck in the Adoption Ban. 

I spent a lot of time crying yesterday looking 
at all the sweet faces that could be home enjoying Christmases and birthdays. 

A lot of the children that were originally matched with Americans have been placed in new homes. 
Some were adopted, some taken into foster care and some returned home to biological families. 

The publicity the ban has received has opened up the eyes of many in Russia 
and they are starting to open their hearts to adoption. 

This is a very good thing. 

There is no way foreigners would be able to adopt all the children in 
Russian orphanages. 

I have seen more publicity on organizations that help families keep their
children with special needs. 

That is really where the focus should be. 

While all these things are wonderful there are still children
stuck in orphanages that could be home right now. 

Natasha turned 8 years old yesterday. 

For 8 years now she has sat in an orphanage wondering where her family is. 

Then she finally finds one that wants her and her government will not
allow the adoption to continue. 

As families caught in the ban we have tried to get our President to 
negotiate on our behalf but he refuses to do so. 

Most Americans feel like the children are Russia's problem and 
they do not wish to help either. 

Some will come and comment that we have no business
adopting for Russia because of children that have been killed and abused here. 

I have no answers for all of these people. 

All I know is what is in my heart. 

And that is an 8 year old little girl that I met in July 2012. 

One that I love so much it brings me to my knees in a puddle of tears thinking of her along in an orphanage,

waiting for us to return just like the children in this video I made. 

Please watch and share this video. 

Pray for these children that they may be comforted and 
for the families that love them. 

We just want them to know they have not been forgotten. 


Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Natasha's Birthday

It is 8:00 a.m. in St. Petersburg, Russia.

That means it is Natasha's 8th birthday.

Last year on Natasha's birthday I made this video for her.

We were anxiously awaiting a court date and 

I was dreaming about what this years birthday would be like for her

when she would finally be home and

 have a family of her own.

Because of the adoption ban,

this year on her birthday I am finishing up a different video.

One that shows at least 30 families and

 children that are in the same position we are.

Wanting only one thing for Christmas that we know we can't have.

Happy Birthday my sweet little Natasha. 

I hope you enjoy the hats and dress we sent for you and your friends.

We love and miss you.