When I first started this blog
I promised myself it wouldn't be one of those boring
blogs were all you got was an update of what was happening once of week
or where everyday I was hounding you to help us with a fundraiser.
But as we end our first trimester (yes it has now been over 3 months)
since starting on this journey
I am finding it harder
to share things with you that I think you will find uplifting or interesting.
I mean
It seems silly for me to post
We all went to the doctors today to have physicals so check that off the list.
Or, the psychology reports came back but there was a mistake made on
it so we are waiting for it to be mailed again.
I could post
Had everything notarized today and it was $310
then I found out it was all notarized wrong.
See
Not very exciting.
But I do know that there are some of you
who may be thinking
WHAT IS TAKING SO LONG?
Are they doing anything to get this poor little girl home?
Well
Yes and No.
We do our part as fast as we can
and then we wait, and wait and wait some more for
freed back to see what we need to do next.
Have I every mentioned that
I HATE WAITING!
It really is not one of my better qualities.
I was so excited because I thought
we were finally ready to move forward.
I found out that our homestudy was finally
FINISHED.
That means we can go to Sacramento
and have everything apostilled
(a fancy word for cost a lot of money to make sure your notary is legit)
I was planning on leaving on Wednesday afternoon
and making the 8 hour drive to Sacramento
so that I would not have to wait about 2 weeks
to get everything back.
Then I found out that my homestudy agency
did not fill out all the extra paperwork
that has to go with the homestudy :(
So now
I wait again.
They said they hope they will have it finished
and ready by Tuesday morning
but they can't promise anything.
The only thing that keeps me from going insane about this
is the fact that the region we are adopting from
is not accepting any dossiers (all those papers we have to have just right to get an appointment)
right now.
Not sure why.
Rumor has it too many adoptions this year
and they don't want to do more than last year
or
change of authority in her region.
Who knows.
All I know is my hopes of
traveling in December are quickly fading.
It will most likely be January at the earliest.
That's just they way things roll
in the international adoption world.
So my giant fundraiser that I had planned
starting Thanksgiving weekend in hopes
that during the fundraiser I would have cute pictures of us
with Carlene to post is not going to happen the way I planned.
So I am going to have to hope and pray it goes over well
anyway without new cute pictures of her.
Because we do have about $10,000 to raise still before
April or May when we are hoping to bring her home.
Speaking of fundraisers
Thanks to everyone who participated in the
last one.
We made $166 from it :)
And if you do want to know more about the day to
day happenings of our adoption
you should consider following along at
I post the boring updates there more frequently ;)
And because I can't stand when a post doesn't have pictures
here is one of Nevaeh and I from Halloween.
So even though it seems like forever
Remember that next Halloween
Our little one will be forced dressed up like us too.
And I'll have another creepy looking doll (according to my children)
Anyone want to suggest what we all should be?